12 Black Friday Etiquette Tips

black friday

For diehard shoppers, Black Friday is the Super Bowl of the year. But with the crowds, limited quantities and fatigue from waking up in the middle of the night, fights are bound to happen and almost always do. Can Black Friday actually be civil and enjoyable?

Jacqueline Whitmore, an internationally-recognized etiquette expert, author, speaker and founder of The Protocol School of Palm Beach, says yes, if shoppers follow proper protocol.

Her 12 tips to a great Black Friday:

Have a plan. Give yourself plenty of time to get to the store and secure your place in line. Have your list ready before the doors open.

Practice patience. Anticipate long lines. Complaining will not make the lines move any faster. Eat breakfast, stay hydrated and wear comfortable shoes. Being organized will eliminate a lot of stress.

Make friends with your neighbors in line. They may know about some great deals or share their coupons with you.

Be courteous to employees. Remember, they got up extra early just like you. Make an extra effort to give a warm smile and say “please” and “thank you.”

Stay positive. Don’t allow others’ grumpy attitudes to rub off on you. Move away from shoppers who are complaining, yelling or screaming.

Don’t be a hoarder. Only take items you may want or need.

Wait your turn. Don’t stand in line for others or ask someone to hold your spot so you can go shop elsewhere. Avoid pushing and shoving the people around you.

Refrain from talking loudly on your cell phone while you wait. Have your cash or credit card handy when you reach the register. This will expedite the checkout process.

Allow others to pass in the aisles. Help someone who is looking for an item if you happen to know where it is.

Observe store rules. Honor the advertised limits and don’t expect the cashier to make any exceptions for you. Don’t make a scene at the register if you disagree with the cashier.

Have fun. You may not get every item on your list but be grateful for the deals you do receive. If the store doesn’t have what you want, don’t gripe to the sales associate or the manager.

Watch for other drivers and pedestrians when pulling into or out of parking spaces. Don’t take up more than one parking space and remember to return shopping carts to designated cart corral areas.

(Visited 33 time, 33 visit today)

Keep Talking to Your Kids After Divorce


As a divorced parent you can never pay too much attention to your communication skills with your children. It keeps the doors open to a healthier, more positive relationship with them. It makes you more sensitive to issues of concern early on so you can nip them in the bud. It encourages your children to talk about what they are feeling, questions they have and situations that are creating conflict for them.

Don’t sit down and say, let’s talk. Find comfortable times and places where conversation can flow naturally and easily. Then bring up related subjects in a casual way. Watching TV or movies at home can often be a catalyst for valuable conversation. Driving in the car together can also be a time of discussion, questions and sharing feelings.

Here are some tips that can help you ease into more productive communication with your kids.

• Asking why can be intimidating and close off your conversation. Instead ask what happened questions which keep the dialogue open. Then move into talking about feelings which provide insights into what’s really going on with your child. Validate their right to their feelings, even if you’re uncomfortable hearing about them. When they feel safe in expressing their emotions, you’ll get real clues as to how your divorce is affecting them – and whether there are changes taking place worthy of your special attention.

• Be patient. Don’t react or respond until you get the full message. Sometimes it takes some meandering for your child to reach the crucial point of what they want to say. Don’t coax – or shut them off too soon!

• Remember that preaching, moralizing or “parenting” comments can put up barriers to clear communication. Listening is your most valuable skill and tool. Then paraphrase back what you’re hearing to make sure you are getting it right. “So you were annoyed at dad for forgetting to call you last night,” is far different from saying, “I don’t blame you for being angry at dad. He’s so undependable.”

• Watch your judgments and put-downs, even with upsetting information. Don’t belittle your children, call them names or insult their behaviors. Talk to them – not at them! The difference is felt as respect. Be careful never to put down or disrespect your child’s other parent in your conversations, as tempting as that may be at times. Keep your kids out of the divorce drama as much as possible. That’s when real emotional damage is done.

• Acknowledge your children for coming to you or sharing with you. Praise their braveness. If you were at fault, apologize honestly and discuss how you can make changes for the future. Sometimes post-divorce parent-child communication can be a very slow process as you rebuild trust and a sense of security within them.

• Show that you accept and love them – even when their behaviors are not acceptable. Then help them come up with some acceptable solutions they can understand and feel good about. Support and positive role modeling go a long way toward influencing your children in the right direction.

Put yourself in your child’s place and you will likely make wiser decisions when it comes to talking about sensitive areas in their life. Afraid to talk about touchy subjects? Get some help from a counselor. Good parents know it’s essential to talk to your children and be there for them when they need you – especially when they’re reluctant to start the conversation. Don’t let them down!

rosalind-sedacca-cctRosalind Sedacca, CCT is a Divorce & Parenting Coach, founder of the Child-Centered Divorce Network and author of the internationally acclaimed ebook, How Do I Tell the Kids about the Divorce? A Create-a-Storybook Guide to Preparing Your Children — with Love! For her free ebook on Post-Divorce Parenting: Success Strategies for Getting It Right! along with free articles on child-centered divorce and other valuable resources for parents, go to: www.childcentereddivorce.com.


(Visited 10 time, 10 visit today)

Help Your Kids Show Gratitude During the Holidays


November has always been a gratitude month for me. Maybe it’s because of Thanksgiving. Maybe it’s because the holiday season is just around the corner. Every year the children in our family do something kind for others. All of us feel enriched when we add a little light to someone’s life. This year our kids […]

[Continue reading...]

Finding the Best Deals for Your Thanksgiving Meal


Make your Thanksgiving dinner one of the best bargain meals you prepare this year. By shopping the sales and using coupons, you’ll save big while your family and friends rave about your delicious meal. Just follow these tips for saving with Stephanie Nelson, founder of CouponMom.com: 1. Plan Ahead: The key to saving on groceries […]

[Continue reading...]

Let Your Kids Help With the Thanksgiving Festivities


With Thanksgiving around the corner, you’re probably super busy getting all the details mapped out for the holiday festivities! The kiddies are probably pretty excited too. We’re sure that they’re pretty interested in what’s happening around the house, so get them involved! Whether it’s décor or dessert, your kiddos can lend you a helping hand! […]

[Continue reading...]

6 Easy Kid’s Crafts and Games for Thanksgiving

thankful pumpkin

Thanksgiving isn’t exactly a holiday geared to children.  Wedged between Halloween and Christmas, we all struggle to include our children in the family Thanksgiving traditions.  This year, try doing some easy crafts and games that basically involve scissors, glue and construction paper.  Make up a game of “Pin the tail on the Turkey” using construction […]

[Continue reading...]

Empowering Your Scared Child in the Dark

michelle cohen

“The thing under my bed waiting to grab my ankle isn’t real. I know that, and I also know that if I’m careful to keep my foot under the covers, it will never be able to grab my ankle” – Stephen King, Night Shift. Is your child afraid of the dark? Are you? I certainly […]

[Continue reading...]

5 Tips for Hiring a Babysitter


With your busy schedule and your children’s endless activities and homework, it might be time to think about hiring some extra help. An afternoon babysitter or part time nanny, could be the solution for you to find a balance in your schedule. But you don’t want just any random person handling your children. Here are […]

[Continue reading...]

Protect Your Furry Family Members from Winter Chill


When summer turns to fall and fall to winter, not only do the seasons change, but so do the needs of your beloved pets. As important as it was to guarantee pet safety in the summer heat, it is crucial to note that colder weather also brings health and wellness risks for pets. Dr. Mitsie […]

[Continue reading...]

How to Deal With Tantrums


We all know how difficult tantrums can be with all the screaming, the crying, the non-comprehensible words, the falling on the ground, and violent outbursts. It’s especially terrible if the tantrum is thrown in public and is uncontrollable. How should you handle a tantrum? With discipline or talking? Here are a few techniques to handle […]

[Continue reading...]

Sibling Rivalry: Reducing Tension Between Siblings

kindness.parade8_edit 1

Trust me when I say it is NOT easy going from being an only child to having a younger sibling! There’s so many emotions: confusion, loneliness and most of all, jealousy. It’s just natural that siblings will not always get along, but what do you do when there’s just too much fighting and not enough […]

[Continue reading...]

2 Thoughts on Why Children Might “Forget”


Everyone, children and adults alike, forget things sometimes. Ongoing difficulty with remembering specific things, however, can be associated with anxiety or worry, or it can be a veiled form of defiant behavior. Let’s take a look at both types of forgetting. Thought #1: Forgetting That Causes Worry and Anxiety What about the person who leaves […]

[Continue reading...]

4 Fun Non-Candy Halloween Snacks!

frankenstein pudding

Halloween is almost here, which means candy, candy, and of course, more CANDY! Well instead of just dumping candy out to your children, I have some fun, festive Halloween treats that you can make at home. These are all kid friendly, so grab your kiddos and head to the kitchen to create some yummy snacks! […]

[Continue reading...]

Top 5 Tips for Adopting the Right Dog

walking the labradoodles

October is National Adopt a Shelter Dog Month and Jenna Fernandes, CEO of CareBooker.com, the “Open Table” of family and pet care services, knows how important dogs are in the family. As a parent to her two dogs—a Min Pin named Scooby and Great Dane named Casper— Jenna offers 5 tips for adopting the right […]

[Continue reading...]

Divorced? 4 Valuable Life Lessons to Master Now

woman in fall

The aftermath of divorce can be a sense of self-discovery or internment in a self-made prison of depression and resentment. It’s all about our acceptance of what is and determination to use the divorce as a pathway to a new and better life. The good news: it’s all up to us. We can create an […]

[Continue reading...]

5 Easy Ideas for Planning a Classroom Halloween Party

halloween donuts

Halloween lands on Friday this  year and many moms are scrambling to come up with creative, easy ideas for their child’s classroom Halloween party.  Not all schools allow “official” Halloween parties, but many teachers appreciate a cute snack and a little game on this fun holiday. Kids from Kindergarten to 5th graders will love these […]

[Continue reading...]

How to Save On Halloween Costumes, Candy and Fun


Halloween is now reported to be the 2nd most expensive holiday of the year! Even though we don’t exchange expensive gifts on Halloween, it is easy to rack up big bills on costumes and candy. The good news is that there are many easy ways to save money on Halloween expenses without compromising on the […]

[Continue reading...]

The Teal Pumpkin Project for an Allergy-Friendly Halloween

Teal pumpkin

image via Brave Girl’s Club. For 1 in 13 kids in the U.S. who have food allergies, Halloween isn’t the carefree, candy-laden free-for-all that most kids eagerly await. That’s because many traditional treats have the potential to cause an allergic reaction – which can be life-threatening – for children managing allergies to nuts, milk, wheat, […]

[Continue reading...]